The Importance of Learning Social Skills Outside of the Classroom
An actual email I sent to the staff at my school a few weeks ago:
I have a little story to tell….
Xth grade recess is often fairly hectic. We have MANY kids with special needs (both identified and not identified) and I often end up “coaching” the kids on recess and social skills.
Today was the second day this year that the weather was bad enough that we separated classes and stayed in the covered areas. I was the only adult to accompany Mrs. T’s class. At first the kids mulled around aimlessly. They wanted a ball so I asked 2 of them to go get a ball from the other classes. Both kids came back to say they were all in use and they couldn’t procure one (my word, not theirs!). I was starting to wonder how in the world the recess time would be occupied and whether there would be tons of puddle splashing (like the last time this happened).
After talking to one of the students about the ball situation, I turned around to find the class, the entire class, engaged in a game of “What time is it Mr. Fox?” And who was “Mr. Fox” but one of my very special students with many social skills difficulties! I was so proud of this role that he had been given and that he was doing a PERFECT job of being Mr. Fox. Other students even stood up for him when a few tried to take the role away.
It was so awesome to me to witness this recess on many levels:
- The kids initiated the game, chose leaders, and played completely on their own.
- They generalized a game from PE and played it on the playground.
- They not only included the kids with social difficulties, but gave one a leadership role.
- Every single student played for 90% of the recess.
- They were kind, respectful, and (for the most part) played by the rules.
It was amazing and I want EVERYONE who has ever had an influence on this class to give themselves a huge pat on the back for a job well done!
Recess coach is indeed what I have become this year. At my recess there are four students identified with Autism as well a student with many behavioral and social needs. All of these kids are on my caseload (in addition to others).
In September, I created “rules” for playground equipment for my students who happen to “forget” during the summer.
At the beginning of the year, I noticed one of my students spent the entire recess pacing back and forth. He did not know what to do during this unstructured time, or how to play with others. My Autism Specialist helped me develop a “Recess Choice Board”.
At the beginning of recess each day I would have him choose 2-3 things that he would do. When he chose “ball”, we tossed the ball 10 times and then he moved onto the next activity. The amazing thing was that after about 2 weeks of this choice board (which I will readily admit this student didn’t like!), he started playing tag with other students. Although technically tag is an “off limits” game, I made the professional decision to allow tag to be played during this recess as long as the kids were safe. Because it is truly beautiful to see my student playing appropriately with his peers.
I’ve created a generic FREE version of this for you. Just laminate and add Velcro! I would recommend replacing these pictures with actual photos of your playground when you are able. These are great for helping your students have an “agenda” of structured activities to do during an unstructured time. Get it here.
For students that need more support than this (and trust me, I’ve got those as well!), I have created 3 units teaching social skills in 3 different parts of the school. Each unit can take up to 4 thirty-minute sessions (if done slowly with lots of discussion and repetition), so these can be pretty in-depth. They also can be adjusted to be quick lessons by eliminating many of the book pages. These lessons are appropriate for higher-functioning preschool students, all the way up through lower functioning middle school students. They can be done in the regular education classroom, or in small group therapy/counseling sessions.
The book is made up of half-sized pages.
The Recess Behavior Book includes:
Playground lessons (pages 2-14):
•Playground 1: Write name of the student on the book.
•Playground 2: Read the social story together. Discuss, repeat, and develop gestures for the bullet points.
•Playground 3: Circle the equipment found at the school’s playground.
•Playground 4: Write or draw rules for the equipment (Adaptation: Have teacher draw or cut/paste one piece of equipment onto this page. Orally discuss the rules for this pieces of equipment).
One of my students did this fabulous job of drawing and writing equipment rules here:
Use the Expected/Unexpected Behaviors Scenes for a barrier game or cut/paste activity.
In addition, there are very similar lessons for teaching behaviors in the Bathroom and Cafeteria.
Bathroom lessons (pages 15-28)
Cafeteria lessons (pages 29-40)
So, so, so many kids need to work on these school skills at all levels. The books are easily adaptable to work with a variety of age ranges and skill level. I hope you will buy these lessons and use them with your students! Get it for yourself here!
**The concepts of “Expected/Unexpected” and “Thinking about others” are based on “Michelle Garcia Winner’s Social Thinking”. Please visit her website for more information: http://www.socialthinking.com.
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Wow! This packet looks great and is jam packed with wonderful lessons! Thank you for taking the time to develop such great resources to share!
What a fabulous packet! I think the graphics and lessons will be so engaging with my students!
Wow! I can how much thought and planning went into this. This would be so helpful for many of my current and former students.
Wow, I so need this. At this very time, we are trying to come up with some recess ideas for a student who keeps getting ‘into trouble’ at recess by making poor choices. I am so using this!
I immediately went to your TpT store to add this packet to my wishlist. I have one student in particular that the team is having a rough time figuring out and finding what works best for him. I think these social story workbooks would be a great idea!
Immediately after reading this, I went to your TpT store and put the packet on my wishlist. I have one student in particular that the team is having a tough time figuring out what works best for him. I think these social story workbooks would be a great way for him to think through some of his choices.
Sorry for posting twice- my first comment didn’t show up. Whoops. 🙂
This packet looks awesome and so well thought out. Thanks for making what so many of us need!
Looks like a great, useful activity!!
You are amazing! I love all of your ideas and was just asked to help during recess for a couple of students. It seems you always have the right tools when I need them. Thank you!
Looks great! I’ll definitely add this packet to my wishlist on TPT!
This looks really good. It is added to my wishlist also. Can;t wait for a sale so I can get it. 🙂
Wow! I think I would love being a recess coach. Trade you bus duty for it 😉 Thanks for offering this packet. Put it on my wishlist for after the Christmas spending frenzy. I know that I could definitely use this. Am already thinking of pulling in our school counselor. . .
I’ve done bus duty. And cafeteria. And now… it’s recess. Who knows what next year will bring!
This packet looks amazing. As a recess duty teacher I find myself being a ‘coach’ for my students on my caseload often. I was just discussing some solutions to the ‘unstructure’ that happens at recess with our counselor as we tried to brainstorm solutions. Thank you so much for this social skills packet.
This is an amazing product. I’m planning to share this with our aides!!
This is totally amazing!!! And so functional!!
I would love this for my students. I have so many who’ve had trouble this year.
Every student, specially educated or other, needs better social skills!
I have so little social skills materials. This would be so beneficial for many of my students!
Perfect activities to teach playground social skills! You are amazing!!